Cruising Past Seventy: The Inner Journeys: Are All-Inclusive Resorts Worth Your Money? Part 2

Thursday, February 28, 2019

Are All-Inclusive Resorts Worth Your Money? Part 2

MITIGATING THE DISADVANTAGES 

It seems like the ideal life. No more housekeeping, laundry, dishwashing, cooking, and other mundane activities. Everything is available at the flick of the finger, so to speak: food, facilities, fun, and fascinating sunsets. You have no worries, cares, and hassles. All your time for things that make you happy. But there are three definite major disadvantages.

Weight Gain


You have all the food you want...and at the best locations. It is all-inclusive so you want to get the best values for your money and eat as much of the best ones as fast as possible, especially if you are staying for a short limited time. This is exactly what we did. On the first month, it was no wonder I gained  many extra pounds and developed a “baby bump.” But, on this our eighth week, I have returned to my original weight. Although traces of the bump still remain, I am well on the way to returning home as I left…without it. The following are the best practices we developed to deal with this major disadvantage.

go-to eating place

First, we put breakfast back to simple: in the room. Just like at home, we have breakfast as soon as we wake up. So we stocked up on simple things like cinnamon rolls and butter, bagels and cream cheese, or granola with nuts and raisins, together with lots of fruits and juices. We still go down to breakfast twice a week: once on Wednesday to have oatmeal or yogurt and hot chocolate; on Sundays for brunch of pasta and paella.

my favorite salad
Second, we put lunch also to a simple event. Our go-to place is La Alhambra, the open-air buffet by the sea which features a grilled item every day-grilled fish, roasted pork tacos, grilled fajitas, etc. I stick to this one dish. The restaurant also has the most complete salad bar in the entire complex. My go-to salad is a small plate of jicama and lettuce with a sprinkling of fake crab meat; usually, without dressing.

Third, we still make dinner our Event of the Day but we don’t go to the buffets anymore. We stick to a la carte dining. In buffets, there are a lot of filler items and you can get drawn to fill your plate with many of these. Even with small samples of each, they can add up to a bunch. A la carte ordering gives you the best dishes from the chef, the freshest versions of the dish, and limits what you can order. In the beginning, we ordered an appetizer, a soup or salad, an entrée, and a dessert. Now, we stick to sometimes just an appetizer or two or an entrée and split the salad and dessert.

Fourth, we are also eating healthy because there is just so many fruits, vegetables, seafood, fish, chicken, and pork available alongside with red meat. In fact, the latter is almost a no-no for us now. In the beginning, we were drawn to the New York, ribeye, filet mignon, churrasco, or arrachera steaks but now we are opting more for fish, shrimp, lobster, and chicken, sometimes pork. And we always start with salads or vegetable antipasti and make sure we have some fruits for the day. I am sure we get our required daily allowances of many vitamins and minerals.

Mexican cazuelitas

Fifth, our exercise regimen has been consistent. We spend thirty minutes at the fitness center every day. Bill hits balls at the golf course and tennis courts. We sometimes even join dancing classes. Our Fitbit shows that we walk at least 10,000 steps every day because we walk from one facility to another among four buildings in the resort complex and not use the free shuttle provided. At home, the kitchen and dining room are just a few steps from the bedroom and the living room. This is even complemented by afternoon walks on the beach or to the shops of the Zona Dorada, the shopping zone beside the complex.
  
Social and Cultural Isolation

There is another major disadvantage of all-inclusive resort stays. Let me call it the risk of social and cultural isolation. It comes from being confined to the resort facilities, again to get the best values from the money you paid, especially if you are staying for a short limited time. 

First, to counter social isolation, El Cid offers many activities. Bill and I have joined Spanish, dancing, cooking, and cocktail-mixing classes. Bill has sometimes joined tequila tasting and me, Texas Hold’em. Every evening, there are shows in the El Cid Theater: Mexican, Impersonators, Broadway, Tropical, Children's, and Audience Participation. Lobby bars have karaoke nights, casino nights, live music, etc.  Each restaurant offers different kinds of live music with different cuisines. And there are always activities on the beach. These are all opportunities for meeting new friends.


my Texas Hold'em group
Second, even if family and long-time friends are more special, we cannot transport all of them to Mazatlan. The staff of El Cid including the wait staff, the maids, and the drivers, and the guards, and the Mexican people, in general, are so hospitable, they can be our "family" while we are in El Cid. In fact, there is an Elite Lounge dedicated to hosting all-inclusive guests and catering to our every need. The Lounge is also where we have met many new friends from fellow guests. We look forward to meeting all of them again in the next season when we return to Mazatlan.

Bill's tequila tasting group
But how about cultural isolation? This is why we choose Mazatlan instead of Cancun. Mazatlan has an excellent broader community one can get involved with. With a population of 650,000, the city has a full plate of entertainment options, from concerts to movies to theater to opera. We have also done three-day trips and have four others scheduled before we go home. An Art Walk every first Friday of the month is such a fun activity. Trips to the Library have been enlightening and enjoyable.



We don't tire of inspecting each branch of the Michaels Gallery chain with their quality Mexican home decor. There are three main shopping districts: the new Mazatlan Galleria Mall area with Liverpool and Sears department stores and Walmart/Sams Club nearby, the Zona Dorada, and the Old Town Mercado and Centro Hispanico. And there is a major Flea Market in Juarez every Sunday morning. We should not forget the large supermarket chains like Soriana, Mega, and Ley. As a result of great shopping values, we are bringing home an art piece for the house, favorite new hats, quality inexpensive clothes, and some new jewelry!

Since we are staying for three months each year, we actually are able to make and keep friends and not be isolated within the confines of the resort. But then you will ask what about cost, especially because we are staying for such a long time. This is the last major disadvantage of all-inclusive resorts.  I will discuss in Part 3, four weeks from now after we have seen how everything goes and counted all the expenses at the end of our thirteen-week stay. Then we will have the final answer to the question "Are All-Inclusive Stays Worth Your Money?" 




71 comments:

  1. Are all-inclusive resorts worth your money? Part 1 defined what it is. This is Part 2 discussing best practices for mitigating the disadvantages of weight gain and social/cultural isolation. Part 3 will analyze costs.

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  3. You have raised such important points on the advantages and disadvantages. Weight gain does sound like its unavoidable. Good to know though that both of you manage to pick a routine to still keep in shape. Walking around the resort, avoiding shuttle services and avoiding buffets certainly helps.

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  4. All good points to do the all inclusive resorts, I can see both sides and try to also get outside to really explore the region. But I do like the different food choices, activities and sports that are all available and part of the plan.

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  5. I have done all inclusive resorts in Europe before and sometimes I think, why I am here. Yup its great so I dont have to worry about much spending money but while I am there, I got bored with the food by the end of the trip (usually I go for a week or two), I want to escape my fellow drunken Brits but they are always in the resorts and you dont really get to go and explore the area unless you pay for an expensive tour which the resort offers or hire a car (which adds on the costs). It has pros and cons but me personally, I love to go self catering and be my own person. :D I think this issue will always be a pro and con one. :D

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    1. We have 9 restaurants so we don't get fired .We also drove down with our car so we have the jeans for going around. Staying for 3 months is great.

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  6. I laughed out loud at weight gain! I think maybe on a two week trip you can be forgiven for just indulging especially if you feel you have paid a lot of that privilege and it's a break from work and looking after yourself. But on an extended trip that is something you need to bear in mind! Good job a lot of resorts have pools and gyms! I think the isolation is our number one (apart from cost) reason for not staying at all inclusive places. It's all too tempting to stay around the resort as you've already paid but we prefer to wander!

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    1. We felt so comfortable with the slow travel type of exploration. I guess we are truly advanced in years!

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  7. I could see the weight gain for sure. You have to learn to live with moderation. I could also see the isolation. I feel this visiting resorts in general instead of staying closer to the local culture. You tend to get a white washed view of the world instead of all the local flavor and color.

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    1. Although if you want to explore love call culture, this us the most comfortable way to do it. Slow travel that's better than home.

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  10. Why not? As long as you can afford all-inclusive resorts are super worth it to me. I mean, who wouldn't want to have everything else fixed for you? Waiting for the part 3 if I stand corrected.

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    1. I actually have it written, just waiting if something comes up to change the conclusion.

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  11. I've stayed at two all-inclusive resorts in Mexico, but only for a week each. I never thought about staying longer. I can see how there could be some disadvantages. You really have to watch the 'filler' items in the food because their goal is to feed the most amount of people for the least amount of money. This often leads to the less healthy, high fat or carb foods. My niece currently lives in Mazatlan and really loves the area and the people.

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  15. All good points about all inclusives, the other element is that you do these for 3 months a year - so you realize the issues and have the will power to eat healthy and exercise and find communities in Mazatlan rather than Cancun for instance. Its helpful for anyone to understand all the aspects. I look forward to hearing about costs.

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    1. Almost finished with that post. It will be a good discussion.

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  16. Haven't stayed for 3 months in a stretch in a place so this is an eye opener for me. Long stay would call for some exercise regimes too.

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  17. You have provided both good and bad points which would be a great help for any traveler trying to discern the same . As someone who had been "patpatin" (in Filipino) all my life, I would consider weight gain as an advantage rather than a cons haha! I would maybe consider availing an all-inclusive resort service for a week or so, depending on the degree of convenience it can provide vs partly taking care of other items.

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  18. What a great approach on the down size of staying in an all-inclusive resort. I never thought about this but it’s so true. I’m definitely the worst near a buffet. I normally eat so much more than I need... I think is a human thing. As you said, eat all that we can to justify the price we’ve payed. So good that you were able to deal with it and made it work at your favor.

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  19. These are really good tips about how to keep the weight off at an all-inclusive. Sticking to the grilled food restaurants is especially smart thinking. I also find that avoiding the sweet and sugary drinks and juices is a good idea - they are loaded with calories and truth is how many pina coladas do you really want to drink anyway? I heard they have more calories than a Big Mac. not sure if that's true but it scared me away lol

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    1. Oh yes, forgot to mention this. I do not drink anything but water. I leave the drinking to my husband!

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  20. So many good points here. All-inclusive always sounds so tempting but, you're right, there are many things to keep in mind, especially the weight gain. It's easy to see how you could gain a ton.

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  21. I can very well understand your feelings. Having stayed for longer duration makes us either very lazy without exercises or the opposite. I had put on 8 kgs in 4 months flat! And it had become difficult to shed those kilos. Yes, to do some physical activities is the answer.

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    1. Wow,16 pounds. That would really show! I am happy I have stayed put!

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  22. Carol, thanks for sharing your experiences from visiting all inclusive resorts for extended periods. We are considering visiting an all inclusive and this helps us foresee the issues that we can avoid by using your advice.

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    1. I am glad we can help. That's why we share them, right?

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  23. All-inclusives certainly have their place in the travel sphere. I’d load up on all the fruit!

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  24. It's very smart to omit buffet eating options. I, too, would be concerned about gaining weight. But you came up with some good rules for yourself to keep things in check!

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  27. A very interesting look at the all-inclusive resort, Carol!

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  29. Your comments on the food remind me of when I went on a cruise with all meals (and snacks between meals) included. I got to the stage where I was skipping meals because I just couldn’t eat any more...

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    1. Yes, it's very much like in a cruise but this us much longer! Problem is worse!

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  30. Carol, I really like how much thought you put into the pros and cons of an all-exclusive experience. You are absolutely right about the cultural isolation, but it sounds like you are doing a great job of combating that problem, and I think that just being aware of it is half the battle. I hope you have had an amazing time in Mazatlán, and I'm hoping that the cost of your extended stay there was reasonable!

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  33. Loved reading you post as it has many important aspects regarding the usefulness of resorts and why sometimes they are not that useful. Cultural isolation is the big factor as sometimes we neglect the city life or local life due to many activities in the resort.

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  34. I am very curious to read part 3 now! Every way of travel has pros and cons. It's just about finding the best way to deal with the cons and you did. I would be like you in the beginning of the trip, eating everything that looked good! :) Luckily they offer a lot of healthy food too and you can always work out in the gym like you guys do. I think I would also take a lot of Salsa lessons! Fun and good exercise! Like you said, when you stay longer in one place you get to know the people who work there and you get to know your fellow travelers better. With all the activities going on you have the opportunity to connect and build friendships.

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  35. I am anxiously awaiting your Part 3, which will go over the costs of such a stay... It all sounds wonderful. I haven't been to Mazatlan but it sounds like it has become a comfort zone for you for many good reasons!

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  36. I've yet to stay at an all-inclusive. I imagine gaining lots of weight as well with all the food. You only live once though so hey. Great post!

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    1. We think we deserve it...all the comforts at this traveling age!

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