This article was first published in TravelAwaits on Dec. 12, 2021.
Almost
immediately after our wedding ceremony, we embarked on what we thought
would be a never-ending honeymoon. We had both led very career-driven lives and
our hunger for travel had reached its peak. But after crisscrossing the North
American continent for five years full-time in an RV, we decided to settle
in one location every winter to begin what real retirement should be for us
“sexygenarians.” But many ask, "Why Phoenix?" Let me tell you how we reached the decision.
It started with our realization that we were not super-persons who did not need a team of physicians
who could take care of us on a regular basis.
After my husband suffered a heart attack in Florida—fortunately near a heart hospital— and my host of many smaller health issues, we decided to stay put in a place for a few months to do the rounds of doctors.
Besides, not getting any younger, we would have to wake up from the dream later, cut short our honeymoon, and really retire.
Before
making a firm decision, we took our RV and proceeded to stay in the most likely
areas where we could try semi-retirement to get a better feel of how it would
be to live there, which is vastly different from simply visiting. We were sure
it would be in the South because neither of us could handle the cold. My
husband’s fingers turned blue at the Grand Canyon National Park…in spring; and,
for 54 years, it was summer year-round for me. It would probably be somewhere
in Florida, southern California, or Arizona. We embarked on a serious search.
SEEKING A BETTER
TAX STRUCTURE AND LOWER COST OF LIVING
Even if San
Diego is touted to have the best weather in the country all year round, it was
easy to eliminate southern California; sad because that is where most Filipinos choose to live. Thus, there are Filipino
groceries like Seafood City, many Filipino organizations to join, and many
of my former classmates, co-workers, and other colleagues. However, the tax structure of the state and
the consequent high cost of living are not good for retirees on fixed incomes
like us. A case in point is the cost of gasoline. It is always highest in
“SOCAL.” Our dollars would buy so much less!
TO BE NEARER
OUR CHILDREN
We turned
our attention to Florida where the tax structure is better.
And there are so many ready-made retirement havens for people like us. As a
matter of fact, we thought we would be buying a property at The Villages, often
cited as the best retirement “city” in the whole country. We loved the climate there, hot and humid like I was used to in the
Philippines. But, alas, Florida is so far from where our children live. Road
trips to visit any of them would never be practical, and plane flights would
all end up being more expensive in the long run. These may prevent us
from visiting them often; or, worse, discourage them from visiting us!
So we zeroed
in on Arizona, where a road trip to San Francisco, California— where my eldest daughter lives—would take just 12 hours; to Denver,
Colorado— which my husband’s daughter calls home— would almost be the same; and to Boise, Idaho— where his eldest and only son lives— would be longer by just an hour and a half. So we took our RV to spend three weeks each
in Flagstaff, Phoenix, Tucson, and Yuma, Arizona’s candidate cities.
A WARMER
CLIMATE
The Grand
Canyon National Park is only one and a half hours away from Flagstaff; only 45
minutes separates it from Sedona, that magical city of red rocks (photo). There are
many
other national monuments and state parks around the city: Walnut Canyon,
Wupatki, Sunset Crater, Tuzigoot, and Montezuma, to name a few. Yes, it’s Arizona’s prettiest corner. If we
lived there, we would be visited by a lot of friends and family. And yet, it proved
too cold for me and my husband since Flagstaff is in the northern part of the
state, at elevations of almost 7,000 ft.
After three pleasant summer weeks, this Arizona city was nonetheless
eliminated.
A MORE COSMOPOLITAN
CHOICE
Let me explain here that I am a big-city girl, having lived in Metro Manila—a megacity with a current population of 14 million, one of the densest cities in the world, much like Bangkok—until I retired. Given a choice, I prefer to have a wide range of facilities for cultural events, many options for shopping, extra choices for international culinary delights (not a single El Pollo Loco), and a full complement of government and commercial services. So, even if Yuma has a population of 200,000 and is just 25 minutes walking distance to Los Algodones, Mexico, a mecca for inexpensive dental and medical services and supplies, it was also eliminated from the list.
A BETTER GLOBAL
REACH
In the end,
it became a close contest between Tucson and Phoenix, Arizona’s biggest and
best metropolitan areas. At first, we found it difficult to decide between the
two.
The Tucson
metropolitan area, population of almost a million, was the early front-runner.
Temperatures are cooler by five degrees year-round because it is at a higher
elevation. It is also closer to Mexico which we were looking at as a second
home at best or a regular vacation spot at least. There are also many landmarks
in and around the city like the Saguaro
National Park and the Sabino Canyon National Recreation Area, aside from
cool day trips to places like the Tumacacori National Historical Park, the site of the first-ever Spanish mission in the
US. Actually, another mission, Xavier San Juan del Bac, is right in the city
and is the best example of Spanish architecture in the US, still actively providing
enchanting services. Tucson is decidedly more Spanish in character. It is also
the site of the world-famous “International Gems and Jewelry Festival” in
winter. Great for aspirational women, like me!
On the other hand, Phoenix is five times larger with a population of five million, the 11th
ranked in the nation. Although it does not have national parks or Mexico at its
backdoor, the Flagstaff area is just about three hours away, Yuma about the
same, and Tucson, two. It is also home
to more museums, entertainment options, venues for concerts and shows, and
city, state, and regional parks. The latter were very useful for communing with
nature when we were in forced lockdowns.
There will be no dearth of places to take our visitors and guests. The
megacity is made up of a cluster of cities and municipalities like Mesa, Scottsdale,
Glendale, Tempe, Chandler, Gilbert, Apache Junction, and 17 others.
We stayed at
the Viewpoint RV & Golf Resort in
Mesa. With 1,900 sites, it is the biggest such resort of its kind in the Phoenix
area. There was a similar resort called Voyager
RV Resort and Hotel in Tucson. Although a little smaller with 1,500 sites,
there was a hotel for guests attached to it. Both are part of Encore Resorts
which also owned the network of campgrounds where we were members. And both had
sections for homes when one finally decided to stay put.
We chose
Viewpoint. The deciding factor was simple: Sky Harbor International Airport is
a global hub, and therefore our travels around the world and visits to children
in Anchorage, Alaska, Calgary, Alberta, Canada, and Melbourne, Australia would not
only be less expensive but more convenient, with usually just one stop or even
nonstop stop flight options.
Three years
later, after we settled with a great family physician and a team of specialists
to whom he referred us, we finally fully retired, sold
our RV and bought a house in Viewpoint. I have fallen in love with the
desert. Spring is a beautiful season to be here when the ubiquitous paloverdes,
aside from all the wildflowers, are in full bloom with their delicate yellow
flowers. Fall weather is also perfect. These
days, we stay home during these two seasons and travel when Phoenix sizzles in
summer or chills in winter.
It was a blessing owning an RV. We were able to search the country thoroughly and when we were ready, choose from candidate cities by staying in each one for three weeks. And then we took all of three years wintering in Viewpoint before deciding to make the arrangement permanent. It was a rigorous and highly enjoyable process. And in the end, we made the best decision.
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Sounds like Phoenix was the right choice for you! You clearly put a lot of thought into your decision. Stephanie
ReplyDeleteYes, it is the best decision!
DeletePhoenix is such a great city. Even without the proximity to the kids, I can see how that was an amazing choice to relocate to.
ReplyDeleteI have a friend who lives in Phoenix, and it is an amazing place. Great choice!
ReplyDeleteWe think so!
DeleteI've been to Phoenix several times, and I've never been disappointed. It has such a wonderful array of experiences to offer, and the area is very beautiful.
ReplyDeleteEspecially in spring!
DeleteWhat a beautiful place to settle down. WOW RVing for 8 years is a very long time.
ReplyDeleteYup, we were itching to get settled at the end.
DeleteHow romantic to have a five-year honeymoon traveling the U.S.! Thanks for sharing with us how you chose to settle in Phoenix, as we might consider after my brother-in-law recently bought a winter condo in the area. How exciting it is to get to visit all your children spread across the globe. It really sounds like Arizona is the perfect central location!
ReplyDeleteYes, it is!
DeleteWow, that was an amazing journey - RVing for 5 years? I guess Phoenix is your city. Thanks for sharing this wonderful adventure.
ReplyDeleteAlthough I've never been to Phoenix but I heard a lot about how beautiful it is! I think you made the right decision settling there. I would love to explore Phoenix, soon I hope!
ReplyDeleteWe invite you!
DeleteI love reading all of your adventures! It's so smart of you to settle into AZ. I never considered the tax advantages! Can't wait to see what AZ brings for you!
ReplyDeleteSo far, we think we made the best decision!
DeleteInteresting reasons and adventure. It's cool to stay close to your children. Thank you for sharing this with us.
ReplyDeleteWould prefer to have them.close by
DeleteI love that you were able to give places a trial run first. That's such a smart thing to do!
ReplyDeleteNever-ending honeymoon sounds fantastic! And your reasons for staying in Phoenix are very reasonable. My husband will retire in 15 years, and we already started to think about where we will move from our expensive area.
ReplyDeleteI hope i have helped somehow!
DeleteMy husband and I are planning to spend our trip around Australia with an RV, and I am excited with the idea and the possibilities that we will experience. By then, our children are all grown up and finishes college and we can enjoy our travel for passion with less restriction. I'm glad that you finally found your new home and enjoying your new chapter of your life with your husband.
ReplyDeleteWow, we RVed in Australia, too. Enjoy to the max!
DeleteOMG! RVing for eight years. That's a long time. And, Pheonix is such a great place to settle down. All the reasons are great.
ReplyDeleteYup, great decision!
DeleteAaaahhhhh....this is good to know. I am sorry to hear about what happened to your husband. I look forward to visiting Phoenix.
ReplyDeleteThanks. I hope uou do.
DeleteYour story of settling in Phoenix after 8 years of RVing is captivating. The journey's vivid details and the decision-making process are well articulated. It's relatable and offers a glimpse into a fulfilling lifestyle change.
ReplyDeleteYes!!! Next post is about that.
DeleteI am glad that you were able to find a place where you want to settle. To be honest, that's the same dilemna that my husband and I have (though we're still on our early 40s) Your post made me think about the different factors we need to consider. Thank you for sharing this.
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