My fifth and final resolution for 2012 is to write a book.
When I retired about 8 years ago from the Philippine
business landscape, I wanted to teach
some, cook some, paint some, and write some. Well, my report card shows that I
passed! I taught in three Seattle learning institutions in 2006-2008, married
Bill in 2008 and have cooked our meals since (I am so glad Bill eats anything!), and
have sustained this blog for almost 2 years, satisfying my artistic bent with photography
and my literary desires by thumping thousands of keystrokes on my laptop. Looking
back, this cruising lifestyle has been just a shade less hectic than my driven years.
And, I have 3 options for the future: continue this, truly retire, or try something
even bigger!
A bigger idea is to transform this blog into a book! Now
that we have some 2 months left in Florida, I might find the time to come to a
decision point. After all, I already have about 160 pages written into this
blog. I just have to find a good thread that will weave the posts and tie
everything together. As I reviewed the books on RVing that are out in
bookstores and Amazon, they all fall into 3 types: a compilation of adventures
and commentary, a personal story, or a ‘how-to’ book. You cannot depend on me
about how-to’s (Bill says my mechanical IQ hovers around 28) so which of the
first two will it be?
Just Compile the
Posts or Tell the Underlying Story?
There are many things unique about our situation that can be
a springboard for good weaving. I am a late-age immigrant from 10,000 miles
away here in America in a late-age marriage. We both retired from previously
very driven lifestyles into the American RV community that is 95% white with
many constraints: cozy living (115 to 350 square foot cozy), few sustained
friendships, constant changes, no consistent health care or ministry and the
distance of family.
Will a straight compilation
of the two different kinds of posts in this blog (1) our lifestyle adventures, OLA,
with the vivid descriptions of places, people, and activities and the 2) wonderings
on wanderings, WOW, which are candid commentary on the cruising lifestyle be a workable
thread? Will our unique perspective prove interesting for the melting pot of an
American audience? Judging from the mild reception to this blog, it may not be
good enough!
Or would adding the personal
story that is going on behind the scenes be a better hook? Does the excitement of RVing (seeing many interesting
sites, learning about history, discovering great institutions, and good
products, meeting interesting people, showing our children more of the country)
compensate for the constraints of this lifestyle (health issues, immigration
problems, emotional and social conflicts, financial constraints)? Will it make or break our quest for a happily
married life?
But even if the personal ups and downs will make the book very
exciting, shall our personal problems be too uncomfortable for me to share? More precisely, will Bill, a very private
person, like my accounts of them? Do we have what it takes to write a book
about the reality of our ongoing struggles behind the hoopla? The first option
is definitely much easier to achieve! Maybe it should be somewhere in between!
Self-Publish or Seek
a Publisher?
But the other dilemma is this: should I self-publish or seek
out a publisher that will be willing to invest in the idea? Self-publishing
will print a book faster but marketing will be more difficult. But then again,
I really am not dreaming of producing a best-seller! Seeking a publisher
requires patience and determination and may take months or years. But, then
again, you get a lot of professional and expert advice and marketing from an
established platform will be a lot easier. This is the decision point where I
will be more stuck, I believe. It is a hard call to make.
Truly, this is one time that your comments shall be most
appreciated! They may just get me unstuck!
Good for you! Just self publish and put it on Kindle. They have a great way to do it. Going the old route will cost you money.
ReplyDeleteGood luck! :D
Thanks for the quick reply, Linda! That certainly helps!
DeleteThat is very well spelled You've done a great job of spelling out your options. It would seem that spelling out things that are very personal could be a bit risky. But your insights and the way you relate your experiences is very good. Good luck with the book.
ReplyDeleteThanks for your comment. Most of my friends chose the underlying personal story option.
DeleteAs an RVer I enjoy your blogs and also the idea of making a book is intriguing We are retired but not full timers and are trips are usually 10 days or less Now we have a new dog and we are taking her on a short trip and hope she likes living in a trailer.
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Hi Judy,
DeleteI'm glad you are enjoying the blog. We felt we would be able to see the whole North American continent faster by RVing full time. Then afterwards we will be able to cover other continents. Also no two of our children or siblings are in a single state. So visiting them necessitated RVing, too!
Carol
There are lots of publishers that you can find on-line but I would think that if you want a bigger audience and for your book to really count you would need a good editor. I would go for the adventure, experience with a smattering of personal insights and stories in between. Although RV living is not for me...unless it is like Robert De Niro's RV, it would be interesting to read about it.
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